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One big happy F-A-M-I-L-Y

11.28.2009

When I was four, I remember sitting down at my preschool table to paint a mom, a dad, and two kids on a blue and white piece of gingham fabric. At the bottom, I spelled out the word FAMILY.

I still recall the teachers rushing over, shocked shocked at the word I had written without having done so before. I shrugged, “I just sounded it out.” But I still remember, even then, that I was proud of a word with more sounds in it than cat or dog or Liz or Dad.

Last night I caught a glimpse of Thalia furiously working over a sheet of construction paper.

I cried.

I was feeling all obnoxiously proud, the way you’re never supposed to admit that you often feel as a parent lest someone call you out on it. All I wanted to do was race through the town screaming at the top of my lungs that my daughter is starting to learn how to write. SHE’S WRITING! SHE’S WRITING! Which, as a writer, is my greatest pride. Not that I wouldn’t be happy if she also learned how to kick a field goal or solder two pieces of iron together. But still. She’s writing. Oh joy.

Now here is where I must admit that Thalia did write Mamily, the first time.

What can I say, she’s her own person.

Our Mamily.

24 shards of brilliance… read them below or add one

Adventures In Babywearing November 28, 2009 at 2:19 pm

Oh I love it. This is the very kind of thing to get me all emotional, too.

Steph

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Julie @ The Mom Slant November 28, 2009 at 2:39 pm

I would have run through the town, shouting along with you. Your mamily is pretty amazing.

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Aunt Becky November 28, 2009 at 3:07 pm

Totally spray paint that from the rafters. Awesome.

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Fairly Odd Mother November 28, 2009 at 3:14 pm

Totally cute! And, I would've cried too.

But OMG, have the cats gotten bigger than Emily? Now, that would be scary!

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Boston Mamas November 28, 2009 at 3:34 pm

Awesome. I love it.

Also love that a couple of your cats are croissant shaped. Suspicious.

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Mom101 November 28, 2009 at 3:57 pm

FOM, they certainly poop more than Emily. That's saying something.

And yeah, it's probably because they've been in the croissants.

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SUEB0B November 28, 2009 at 3:58 pm

Writing is magic! Too cool.

Your family is kind of short-waisted, though. (Writing that, I feel like that website where they grade kid drawings http://www.thebestpageintheuniverse.net/c.cgi?u=irule

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slouchy November 28, 2009 at 4:31 pm

So sweet.

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Princess Katie and Racer Steve November 28, 2009 at 5:02 pm

Straight up, this is cool.

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Redneck Mommy November 28, 2009 at 6:45 pm

That is so awesome. I am so proud of her and she's not even my daughter.

Soak up these moments Liz, they are so fleeting and will sustain you for a lifetime. Trust me.

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Amber November 28, 2009 at 7:40 pm

That is pretty pride-inducing, I understand the tears.

And you know what? I might even cry about the mamily. Because the point isn't so much perfection, as the effort. Way to go Thalia!

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Mom101 November 28, 2009 at 7:41 pm

Amber, you said it.

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Lady M November 28, 2009 at 8:53 pm

Awesome. Sometimes I whisper things to my husband – “he just said (amazing thing for a one year old to say)!” even in our own house, like someone is going pop out of the ether to call me on bragging. Shout from the rooftops, I say, 'Mamily!'

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gretchen November 28, 2009 at 10:22 pm

Yeah. Mamily. It's a family of mammals. Didn't you know that? The kid's a genius.

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Mom101 November 28, 2009 at 10:32 pm

Or mammaries, Gretchen? Come to think of it, it might have been a crack on the size of my boobs.

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Amy Flanagan November 28, 2009 at 10:42 pm

I love your mamily. And I love that the pictures are just smiles on legs. I miss those days!
Happy Thanksgiving!

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Motherhood Uncensored November 29, 2009 at 3:46 am

You've framed that, right? Because good lord that's cute.

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Christie - Childhood 101 November 29, 2009 at 6:03 am

Isn't it wonderful how many tiny little and great big things we get to celebrate because of our children?

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Laura Cousins November 29, 2009 at 10:07 am

That's the kind of thing that makes you want to install your own bell-tower on the top of your roof.

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Maggie November 30, 2009 at 12:07 am

I would have cried too. That my children are already such fantastic readers is amazing to me. That my daughter writes creatively? Even better!

Cute family!

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Kami November 30, 2009 at 3:16 am

That drawing MUST be matted, framed and hung somewhere obvious in your apartment. The best artwork is the work with a great story behind it.

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Amy Sue Nathan November 30, 2009 at 3:17 pm

You forgot to mention she's an artist.

I love what you've done with your hair.

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WebSavvyMom November 30, 2009 at 6:11 pm

–>I Love it! I would have been so proud too.

http://www.WebSavyMom.com

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Sarah December 1, 2009 at 5:57 am

Frame it? Heck, Lands End has a deal where you can send them a scan of the artwork and you can have it imprinted on one of their tote bags. I'm seeing the 2' x 3' version on your shoulder now! Awesome…maybe Mamily is her version of Mom + Family (not to outdo Nate, but you are THE MOM!) Love this Mamily who shares with us these joys!

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