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A Christmas Story

12.25.2009

“I want a BIG tree this year,” Thalia told me. “A REALLY big tree.”

I sat her down and told her that there wasn’t going to be a big tree this year. That we decided not to spend the money on a big tree, and to instead put it towards nice gifts.

The tears started to well up in her eyes.

I stumbled for more justification.  That it was so late in the season for a big tree. That live trees smelled beautiful. That we we loved the Charlie Brown tree we had last year. That a live tree is nice for the earth. That we could plant it at Grandma’s house again and watch it grow every year and one day it would be a big tree.

Still, she was crushed.

Earlier this week Nate came home with a tree. A live one in a pot, as described, no bigger than Thalia not counting the pot. It was a about one-twentieth the size of the one Thalia had fallen in love with at her cousin’s house last week. He set it on the ground and tentatively pulled off the blue plastic bag  that sat over top. I felt my teeth clench and my shoulders tighten. We turned towards Thalia.

Thalia scurried towards the tree, eyes wide, arms open.

She hugged it.

“A big tree, daddy! You got the big tree! Ohhhh…. I love it. Thank you!” she gushed. “Oh thank you, I love it!”

And she did.

That right there? That’s Christmas.

Merry and happy to you and yours.

29 shards of brilliance… read them below or add one

Elisa @ Globetrotting in Heels December 25, 2009 at 11:52 am

Awww… that is the cutest thing and perfect to put even the Grinch in the Christmas spirit!

Merry Christmas, guys :-)

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Amy@UWM December 25, 2009 at 2:13 pm

Just goes to show you that “big” is in the eye of the beholder. Glad Thalia's Xmas wish came true.

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MDTaz December 25, 2009 at 3:28 pm

That is the perfect Christmas story. Everything in perspective.

Joyeux Noël to you and all your loved ones, little and big. And thanks for the gifts of wit, wisdom and wisecracks that come from your blog all year…

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Fairly Odd Mother December 25, 2009 at 3:43 pm

I love you guys!

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Laurie December 25, 2009 at 5:27 pm

Way to go making me cry on Christmas, Mom101. ;)

Gorgeous story.

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Amber December 25, 2009 at 6:57 pm

It's all a matter of perspective, isn't it?

Merry Christmas!

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Renée aka Mekhismom December 25, 2009 at 7:09 pm

Merry Christmas!

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Sarah December 25, 2009 at 8:56 pm

That gave me chills. How wonderful. Merry Christmas!!!

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Naomi December 25, 2009 at 10:24 pm

Sometimes kids can surprise you… thankfully!

Merry Christmas from another teeny-tree family.

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Lara December 26, 2009 at 12:54 am

Happy Christmas to you too. :)

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Alexis December 26, 2009 at 1:58 am

I love that story. Merry Christmas!

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Lady M December 26, 2009 at 9:05 am

Merry Christmas to you!

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Lady M December 26, 2009 at 9:05 am

Oh and by the way, I got a big plush octopus for Christmas this year. Exactly what I needed!

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Sarah, Goon Squad Sarah December 26, 2009 at 5:13 pm

Kids surprise me. They are awesome when you least expect it.

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Sue December 26, 2009 at 7:48 pm

:)

Kids, I tell you. Some days they make it look so easy. Seasons' greetings to you and yours.

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Aunt Becky December 26, 2009 at 9:46 pm

This is beautiful. What a lovely child she is.

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Karen Chatters December 27, 2009 at 12:27 am

Oh, I love it!! What a wonderful story. I hope you all had a Merry Christmas!

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Sarah December 27, 2009 at 3:24 am

Yet more proof why we love them more than we can possibly comprehend. Love to you and the family. Merry Christmas!

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J at www.jellyjules.com December 27, 2009 at 5:36 am

Very sweet indeed. Merry (belated) Christmas, Happy (belated) Hanukkah, and Happy (early) New Years!

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Magpie December 27, 2009 at 5:01 pm

Perfect.

Merry New Year to you all.

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Kami December 27, 2009 at 7:36 pm

Aren't kids amazing? I could totally see my son doing the same thing.

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Unplanned Cooking December 28, 2009 at 3:07 am

That is so sweet.

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caramama December 28, 2009 at 8:10 pm

Perspective is everything, isn't it?

I hope you and your family had happy holidays!

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Rita Arens December 28, 2009 at 8:59 pm

SOB! I want to squish her.

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apathy lounge December 28, 2009 at 9:47 pm

Sometimes a big tree is all it takes. Glad things turned out okay.

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Email From The Embassy December 29, 2009 at 12:49 am

Awwww… When my son was around four, he opened a Christmas present. He looked at it for a minute with a big smile, and then he set it aside. His older brother asked “What's wrong? Don't you want to play with it? Santa gave it to you!” Baby brother looked at it again, and his eyes grew wide: “You mean… I get to keep it?” Such excitement – it was a beautiful moment.

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Isabel Kallman December 29, 2009 at 1:13 am

i love this story. AND, I can see Thalia in my mind's eye with all that expressive love. Sniff.

You need to turn this into a children's book STAT. This story needs to be illustrated and shared.

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Elaine A. December 29, 2009 at 3:41 am

Sounds like it was the perfect tree for her! Hope your holidays are bright! : )

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Amy Flanagan January 4, 2010 at 12:27 am

Just catching up on a snowy New Year's afternoon. Thanks for this. The magic of Christmas is alive and well!

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